2.27.2010

Get the Fuck Over It, Hottests

Dear Hottests,

Jay is gone. Your "leadja" is not returning to 2PM. There will be six members to the group. 7 - 1 does not equal 0, it equals six. A six-membered 2PM does not make them 6PM. Jay is in America. He is home, where he belongs. Boycotting does nothing. Making threats to kill yourself in front of the JYPE building does nothing but make you look like an idiot.

Get the fuck over it and move on.

I will be the first to admit that I would love to see Jay back in the group, but I have also stated from day one that I didn't believe he'd be back anytime soon, if he came back at all. BECAUSE THIS IS THE MUSIC INDUSTRY AND THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING BUT MAKING MONEY.

Honestly, Jay fucked up. He did. Was it right for all of South Korea to react the way they did? No, absolutely not. But it still doesn't change the fact that he fucked up. Twice, according to the JYPE official statement. I don't know what Jay did, nor do I care. If it's as horrible as everyone is making it out to be, why the hell would you want to know that?

Why are you demanding that what he did be released to the public? You keep saying Hottests deserve to know ... actually, you don't deserve to know. Because that is personal. That is something that impacts Jay's life, Junsu's life, Junho's life, Wooyoung's life, Nichkhun's life, Taekyeon's life, and Chansung's life directly. IT DOES NOT IMPACT YOU. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

And even if they did release the reason, how could YOU be so selfish in demanding that? Yeah, that's right. It's selfish of you to demand it. Have you ever thought about what EXACTLY it could be? Have you ever thought that if it is so bad that no one can speak of it, that it could very well DESTROY Jay's life? Are you all really that selfish that you need to satisfy yourself, give yourselves peace of mind rather than hope and pray that whatever it is Jay did will not harm his NEW life in America? If you're all so interested in protecting "Leadja," then shouldn't you be demanding NOT to have this reason released?

Also, this boycott is the stupidest thing ever. Don't listen to them. Go ahead. A six-membered 2PM has actually been doing fine without Jay. You know why? Because they're talented and because rational people recognize that even though they are one less member, their talent has not changed. But go ahead and turn your backs on the men you once loved and obsessed over. Way to claim to be a Hottest.

I honestly don't blame them for saying that 2PM would be better without Jay. Because they have been doing fine without him, and because they have to worry about THEMSELVES and their families and their lives and their futures. Can you honestly blame them for looking out for themselves? Jay screwed up, whatever he did that is so horrendous could also screw up their future. Again, if you claim to be Hottests, you'd be supportive of the future of Junsu, Junho, Wooyoung, Taekyeon, Nichkhun, and Chansung.

I just have to also mention that I heard some people actually talking about committing suicide outside of the JYPE building. I hope that is just a rumor, and nothing serious, because that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. You're really going to end your life because Jay is not coming back to 2PM? Okay, great. Make ALL SEVEN men live in guilt for the rest of their lives because you're a fucking dumbass.

I will support 2PM. 2PM consists of Junsu, Junho, Taekyeon, Wooyoung, Nichkun, and Chansung. I will not boycott this nor will I sign any petitions against them, so don't bother asking me to even spread the word. With or without Jay, I support 2PM.

With that said, I will also support Jay in whatever he decides to do in life. If he somehow makes it here in the American music industry, I will support him. If he decides to stay out of the limelight and live a quiet life in Seattle, then I will support him. If you love him as much as you claim you do, you'd do the exact same thing.

7 - 1 = 6

Oh, and feel free to unfollow me on Twitter or leave hate comments below. It doesn't bother me. You've all asserted your feelings and opinions VERY strongly since September. I feel I should be able to do the same.

And then there is part two of this post ...

TKPA

82 comments:

  1. ddanni_@twitter2/27/2010 7:35 PM

    You make so much sense that I think I fell a tiny bit in love

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  2. I...I think I love you.

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  3. I completely agree with everything you said in this post!
    That's how I've been thinking the whole time.
    Jay was great for the group, yeah... but he wasn't the only person in the group.
    I also support 2PM in everything they are doing now and I know they'll be hurt with the loss of Jay... but they need the Hottests support now more than they did when Jay first left.
    I stand right beside you in protecting 2PM.

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  4. THANK YOU, TKPA!
    You just said everything I have been afraid to say. <3

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  5. i couldn't have said this any clearer(:

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  6. AMEN! This is why I love. I can't wait to do the next show in order to unleash my fury.

    -Cyn

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  7. LOVE2PMALWAYSANDFOREVER2/27/2010 7:37 PM

    ahhhh so refreshing, like a cool Spring breeze!!

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  8. I loveeee this <3

    People are pissing me off, talking about how the 6 members didn't defend Jay at all. People were also trash talking Junho, because he said what Jay did made him hate Jay.

    They've never even stood in their position to think about it. If the netizen(s) were one of them, they would obviously do whatever they can to keep the EXISTENCE of 2PM let alone trying to get Jay back. Obviously they would have wanted their leader back, but they couldn't speak against the company, they're the ones who pay them. They're the ones who decide their career.
    Yes, some people say it's betrayal, or selfishness. But seriously, if you were one of them, would you risk your career, your team, your other 5 members?

    Wow, my little own rant here.
    Again, completely agree with your blog. =]

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  9. Well said, as always, TKPA.
    With or without Jay, I SUPPORT 2PM.
    However they have become, and however they remain.

    Our paths will cross with Park Jaebeom again, one way or another.
    If you had really loved him, at least have faith in that.

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  10. I swear I love you!
    I'm ranting about this whole issue too and just about to write another rant about some stupid article i've found earlier.
    Have i said I love you? xD

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  11. Great post♥ so truee!
    but, I'll get over it when I want to. For now, I'll live in my imaginary world :)

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  12. finally someone who has the same opinion than me <333 I'm so happy that people like you exist, because I'm really annoyed right now of all the people who keep bashing 2PM and act like Jay is the poor victim.
    I love Jay, but I also love 2PM and I will always support them, even without Jay <333
    2PM fighting !

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  13. I was surprised - maybe because I don't follow all your updates, so yeah, I was surprised to see that you do support all 6 members. Thank you. =)

    Fans who think they have all this information and try to deliver "the truth" are the ones who annoy me the most. They're the most biased, lying bitches, seriously.

    Anyway, thanks for being one more person in my timeline that has sense.. =)

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  14. thank you thank you.
    lol.
    i'll admit that 2PM minus jay is still kinda sad for me. but i know i'll get over it soon. like.. its srsly sucks that jay's not there.. but what can i do about it? yeaahhh i'd prefer 2PM to be 7 members but 6 members are still good for me. if jay did make a mistake though, why the hell did JYPE feel the need to release that? didnt he know that fans wouldn't believe it & think that "its a conspiracy?" jeeez. now theres so much unnecessary commotion. JYPE shouldve just simply said that jay does not want to go back to 2PM. end of story. & if that secret does exist, we'll never know. if 2PM is hiding it, im guessing its FOR A VERY GOOD REASON. like pandora's box. lol. we'll never know. so yeahh i'm just gonna focus on 2AM for now & when the time comes, i'll be supporting 2PM's new activities.
    =)
    p.s. wouldn't this be the best time for hottests to keep in mind the words "love & respect" ? =/ kinda ironic....

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  15. Omg..thank you so much for writing this I think ILU~

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  16. THANK YOU SO MUCH! this is exactly what i've been feeling since this mess started... is nice to see it in words so well together.. you are so right!

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  17. Actually, you were wrong: I DO like this, and I love you so hard right now.

    Thank you for being blunt and not sugar coating, thank you for the "7-1=6", doublt THANK YOU for the "IT DOES NOT IMPACT YOU. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS", because I tried to stress that I know we're curious, but just because we're fans doesn't mean we have any right to know.

    I can't find any point I disagree with you on, and I'm happy you spoke your mind; I'm sure it provided a good venting for you.

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  18. i agree with everything you said. thank you.
    however for people like me who loved 2PM in Variety a LOT more than them as singers (what?! sue me!) it's hard to get over this whole thing because JAY was hilarious and 2PM comes off now as people who are very different. i'll leave the fandom as of now until the new 6 member 2PM will return and make me laugh again

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  19. You know what? Thank you too. I'm still supporting 2PM no matter what. Because, talent is talent as well. Yes, the boys were harsh but you know what? They're boys, they make mistakes, they'll learn from it.
    7 - 1 = 6.
    I was going to support it, whether Jay was coming back or not. :)

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  20. This was awesome, I agree with you <3

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  21. I agree with everything you've said.
    Thank you so much <3

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  22. Interesting post. Seriously.
    I myself don't like unhonestly and selfish
    people. I don't like people pretending
    brotherhood and don't act so.
    Only live for money and fame? What a poor life.
    You said money makes the world go around-
    a western sight of the world.
    And 'Idols' that think little of their fans don't deserve my money.

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  23. Very intriguing indeed for me though I will wait until everything from audio or even from video has been translated and what not to actually see if the answers that the group made were accurate. If however the group did say some of the stuff it'll be somewhat understandable but time will tell.

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  24. You don't know how much I appreciate you writing this. It summed up all I was feeling. Of course it's going to be hard for everyone to come to terms with what's happened and realize that it IS true, and it's not going to change...and that they cannot do anything TO change it. The boycott really upset me from day one, and I never thought it was the right thing to do. Why make the other 6 suffer even more for the mistakes of one? It has to be hard enough for them in the first place, and it really upsets me that these so-called "Hottests" are just going to make their lives even harder. I agree with you completely, and I'm going to always support the six boys that I love, Jay or no Jay. And when it comes to Jay, I'll also support him in anything he does and pray that he's happy and successful.

    But really, thank you so much for the first rational post I've read on the topic. It's much appreciated.

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  25. Finally something about 2pm, specifically Jay , that's not about boycotting them. SOOOOOOOO damn refreshing.

    and yes, I so I agree with you.

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  26. YOU ARE GOOD JOB :D
    but seriously, this is the first sane piece of writing i've seen about Jay in a long time.
    People really need to understand that 2PM is 2PM, whether its 6 or 7 in the group.

    Thanks for writing this. We few sane hottest appreciate it <3

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  27. Soooo... I wandered into this log because of this post and I totally LOVE it? Not just this post but all of them haha? You might be gaining haters for this post but you're totally gaining readers/fans too! Thanks for trying to knock some sense into those "ex-Hottests" (we all know the cry babies will be back anyway...).

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  28. YEAH!!!
    i think some people have to read this!!!
    2PM IS 2PM, WITH JAY OR NOT!
    I will always suportt Jay and 2PM!!!
    Fighting!!!!

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  29. well said i mean at first i was like okay lets support this but these Hottest have gone out of control i mean what is wrong with them

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  30. Well I disagree with some of your points, and agree with some other points you made (like whatever this "secret" happens to be is none of our business).

    The world is full of differing opinions and I certainly have no plans to leave hateful comments or to stop following you on twitter :) I enjoy your site too much!

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  31. You just said it all girl *applauds* thank you. I'm so sick and tired of saying this shit over and over again. All of this is just so ridiculous an exhausting. These damn Hottests are such hypocrites! They claim to be doing all this for all of them but obviously they only care about Jay. I mean is this what Jay would want? Do they even care that they're hurting the other six by doing this?

    Oh and they're so in denial! Jay could never ever possibly do ANYTHING wrong cause apparently he's Jesus! So it must be a conspiracy, and/or it must involve one of the boys turning on him (some are actually saying it's Junho). This shit is just way out of control.

    Seriously what is wrong with people? With all the crap I've been through in my life it really pisses me off to see people act like this is such a big serious problem in their lives. Like someone dying or an illness. I mean, WTF?

    I've tried to be respectful of others feelings but these people are going way to far. I've had it and I'm not going to hold back my feelings anymore. They are way out of line and to anyone who shows disrespect towards Junho, Wooyoung, Taecyeon, Junsu, Chansung, and Nichkhun will get a serious verbal bitch slap from me.

    I could give a damn what they think or feel anymore.

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  32. Thank you so much for being the first to think things through in a rationale manner.

    Whatever you just wrote has shut a lot of people up. 6 or 7, they are still 2PM.

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  33. OH MY GOODNESS. Finally, someone who understands! All those hate comments against the other members are irrational, and disgusting. 7-1=0? Do they have a problem with math. Like you said, 7-1=6. Honestly, those kind of hottests say they're just concerned about what's going to happen with Jaebum. They don't even ask about the rest of the members. These Hottests are rude. Those hottests say they can act however they want because they have their rights.

    Guess what? 2pm has their rights too, and If I was them, I'd just storm out of the building and been like " f*** off " to those "hottests".
    Plus I don't believe any of the insider2pm shit even if they do state their source.

    How can they love someone, then hate them just because they don't agree with them? That's their so called loyalty. I won't even call them hottests anymore. More like Jay's hottest.

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  34. WOW. I really thought I was alone in all of this. All I've been reading are boycott this boycott that. Anti-2pm this & that.

    You just took every single word that I was thinking about this whole thing. I totally agree with everything in this post. THANK YOU. I commend you for your bravery. I hope more people like you start writing more stuff like this, & open people eyes.

    I support 2pm as a 6 member group. But I also support Jay as Jay Park. &I still love all 7 of them.

    It just breaks my heart to see all this happen.
    But this too shall pass.

    7-1 does equal six. its basic elementary math. Or do they need a calculator for that?

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  35. LOL just another mindless supporter who thinks 6pm cares. Face the facts, 6pm DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THEIR FUCKEN FANS. They spat in their face and mocked and laughed at them. You're just another one of those dumbasses without any dignity to keep supporting them. They're not entertainers, they're monsters. Why don't you get the fuck over it and get a brain.

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  36. omg..TKPA i heart u!!
    all the hottest should read tis!!

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  37. I FREAKING LOVE YOU!
    you just took the words out of my mouth. :P

    NOW THATS WHAT I CALL A TRUE HOTTEST. <3

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  38. -_-
    Why should I keep supporting a greedy group filled with desperation for some limelight & camera time whores.

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  39. Totally agree! You definitely took the words out of my mouth! These so called "hottest" are the true greedy ones! Thanks for telling the truth!

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  40. you're so so right!!

    2pm --> 7-1=6

    only stupid people will say 7-1=0..

    (i support 2pm with 6 members as long as they show us their talent) fullstop!

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  41. GREAT POST!

    To the 2 posters above ("They're not entertainers, they're monsters" and "greedy group filled with desperation for some limelight")

    First of all it's an entertainer's job to be in the limelight. If they didn't care about staying in the limelight, they wouldn't FUCKING BE IN THE ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESS. Also, there's nothing wrong with not caring about their fans. You should support musicians based on their MUSIC, not based on whether they give a rat's ass about your measly opinions.

    I suspect most of the boycotting HOTTESTS are teenage idiots because they seem to be ignoring the fact that 2PM is a JOB, not some extracurricular club. The members are supporting themselves and their families through this gig, so obviously their not going to risk their survival for one member, especially when said member has his own life in America.

    To those saying the 6 members are traitors, how many of you are willing to quit your jobs/school and sacrifice your entire future for a friend who's committed a serious mistake. And if anyone really kills themselves over this, I am going to nominate you for the Darwin awards because you've just saved Earth valuable resources by taking out your stupid existence. Rant over.

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  42. omg wht u wrote is soooooooo damn true
    wow!! totally agreed
    i will support both 2pm and jay
    crazy hottest who turn there back on 2pm is fuckin nonsense ~~~
    7-1=6!!!! HELL YEAH!
    u hav made my day.

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  43. applauds!!those crazy ex hottest are just bitches who doesnt have lives or too much times in their fucking hands.you speak my mind.well done!just go on with your life,ex hottest.im really sick of all this fucking mess.just let the rest of 2pm do their thing.dont make it as if it concerns your fucking life,bitches!you dont know what FAN means,do you??motherfucker.all well said.lets just screw these bitches away,TKPA.we have LIVES,unlike those so-called hottests.

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  44. i'm not a 2pm fan but i will still support them notheless...

    but frankly speaking, jype could have done better by totally covering up and juz say due to personal reason...i understand that they want to be honest abt it but i think that actually makes things worse...

    i feel very sorry for rest of the 6 members...i was hoping for jay to come back actually, although i know that might be a lil hard to do so...

    to all 2pm guys, be strong!!

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  45. way to go! you're definitely a true fan! finally someone who are bold enough to speak OF THE REALITY. true salute to you, i agree with every word you typed. (:

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  46. I love you. I jsut followed you on twitter.

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  47. even if there's so many person who've said this, i'll also say it.

    i love u. i do.

    well, it's been heartbreaking enough to have Jay gone from 2PM, but to have fellow HOTTEST claims that they will hate the other 2PM members because of that is just..
    *sigh*

    well, even if you don't know the person who actually say that they Hate you, doesn't mean that you won't be Hurt, right?
    Have you ex-HOTTEST consider this?

    If you LOVE them, LOVE them ENTIRELY. ho.
    its not like this is all their fault anyway.

    2PM Hwaiting!:3
    we will always support you all!

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  48. i LOVE THIS! I couldn't have said that any better! I'm so sending this to every "coldest" i come across!

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  49. OMG , I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE ACTUALLY FEELS THE SAME WAY AS I DO ! I AGREE 100% ON EVERYTHING THAT'S BEEN SAID IN THIS POST ! XX

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  50. thank god there are still sane people. kudos to you! agree with what you said almost word for word.

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  51. Nicely said. Thank you for taking the time to write this.

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  52. "They're not entertainers, they're monsters. Why don't you get the fuck over it and get a brain"

    HELLO? They're HUMANS. Humans are flawed creatures. I think the one who needs to get a brain, or at least unblinded eyes, are the anti's(ex-Hottests).

    Thank you for your post. I agree with much of what you said. 2PM is 2PM whether 6 or 7, not 1:59pm or 6PM. "Fans" aren't the one to decide their group name. 7 = 1 is alright, but don't forget they are also individuals. 7 - 1 is not 0, it is 6. Just because one member is gone, doesn't mean the rest are nothing.

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  53. I agree with most of the points in this post.

    I admit that I am curious about this "horrible thing" Jay did. And it's not like JYPE handled the situation very well. And it is tough to look at 2PM without Jay.

    Through the whole series of events, I went from supporting Jay, to supporting both Jay and "6PM," to supporting 6PM... At this point, I've basically let go. Whatever happens, happens... and I wish Jay and 2PM the best, but I'm not gonna stress out over it anymore.

    The same goes for any other group -- no matter what sh*t goes down, there's not much I can do about it and there's no point in stressing out.

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  54. likes this post

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  55. dark_faery_gyrl2/28/2010 11:05 PM

    THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS!!!! I'm so tired of the stupid things people are saying... your amazing... i think everyone just fell in love a little bit...

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  56. I'm with you all the way.
    And I finally downloaded iTunes so I could buy the album.
    Lovin the boys 4ever.

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  57. "And if anyone really kills themselves over this, I am going to nominate you for the Darwin awards because you've just saved Earth valuable resources by taking out your stupid existence. Rant over."

    DAMN. I fucking agree. I also believe these antis (not worthy to be called fans or netizens), are High school, or elementary school dropouts who think they know every damn thing about the world. This isn't your damn 'fantasy' land. But your feet in their shoes. Do it, I have, and I honestly wouldn't risk my career for a friend who messed up big time. I'd still love them and help them out, but not risk my career. I bet ALL of you would too. You're a liar if you say you wouldn't, a really ignorant one at that.

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  58. I LOVE YOU.
    SO MUCH.
    I agree with pretty much everything you've said here. Thank you for posting this. <3

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  59. ahaha u're so funny =)
    agree with everything u say,..i've been thinking the same way too ==" about how the 6 not abandoning Jaebeom like some Hottests said, but the 6 are protecting their lives and futures too =="
    though they wont be 2PM anymore for me..
    theyll just be 1:59PM..but i'm still supporting them..
    i hope everything will die down soon and peacefully..

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  60. I don't hate you, but I certainly don't think that you are right either.

    It's great that you have an opinion. But your opinion isn't absolute, you may have your reasons, but the other side has just as solid as a reason. Do not use extreme korean fan to represent the majority, we're not all going to commit suicide outside of the the JYPE building.

    Some of us are just hurt about what happened. Don't talk to us like we're morons.

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  61. What can I say? Celisse...

    I really love all your post ever since day 1..
    Thanks honey for taking the words out of my mouth...

    I'm not a hottest but all these 2PM, Jay, JYPE news is so depressing... We need to get all over this... Geez..

    Two thumbs up for this!

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  62. I hope all of hottest reads this,

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  63. "To those saying the 6 members are traitors, how many of you are willing to quit your jobs/school and sacrifice your entire future for a friend who's committed a serious mistake. "

    THIS. SO MUCH WIN. Reading the article and then this comment made me smile. Seriously. Hope you don't mind, but I'm taking this comment as future reference BD

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  64. i'm glad we're friends & you make my life easy. xD why do we think alike? LOL

    but seriously, i can't find any part of this blog that i don't agree with. Thank you & ILYSFM! <333

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  65. Korean Beef's been saying this since September. Where were you?

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  66. I don't mean this in a bad way and please don't take it so.

    These fans, HOTTESTs love/d 2PM. You have to kind of put yourself in their place. They realized South Korea made a mistake when the petition was made. They wanted their Leadja to come back so everything was okay. When JYPE announced that Jay's contract was terminated, all their waiting and actions were for nothing. You'd feel depressed. It didn't matter if they were pro boycott or not, in the end they wanted Jay to come back.

    HOTTESTs love 2PM and that was their major bias group just like Super Junior is yours.

    Just think before you tell HOTTESTs to 'get the fuck over it'; if something happened to Super Junior and I mean something bad as in Kangin doesn't return, I'm pretty some people would be the same you are with HOTTESTs.

    Let them whine, cry, get angry, it's only human nature for them to do that. Just give them time. Writing a blog and telling them to get over it won't do anything. I probably know that this post was just to vent.

    Your fandom is ELF, their's is HOTTEST.

    You don't have to reply, I don't expect you to. This is just a statement, that's all.

    Love & Respect.

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  67. @Anonymous ^^^

    hello~ i'll go straight to my point. =)

    it is really okay for Hottest to whine, cry and be angry after all of this but them (some) trying to ruin the other members lives/careers just by showing private pictures and all the "anti" movements are just ridiculous. it's very disappointing that they loved 7 of them in the beginning but now that 1 is gone, they turned to hating the ones left. there are a lot of rumors going around so who knows what's really the truth right? it seems that what they want to do now is to bring the 6-membered 2PM down. will Jay be happy with that? they've been vocal that they only protect the name of Jaebum. but is there way to to do it is by trashing the others' reputation?

    i/we love 2PM. all 7 of them. whether or not they're together or doing their own things, we still love them because they have proven that they are worth all the love. ♥

    by the way, i'm true-blooded VIP. just saying. =)

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  68. @Anonymous ^^^

    you might want to read this:

    http://poopiness.wordpress.com/2010/03/02/324/ =)

    okay i'm outta here. LOL

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  69. I say let the stupid bitches commit suicide all over the place. If they're so easily driven to suicide, the world is better off without them. SERIOUSLY. And I hope the other members of 2PM know that. There's nothing for the guys to be guilty about, and definitely no reason why their suffering should be made worse.
    Actually, my first reaction to JaeBeom's expulsion from the band was to laugh hysterically about the ridiculousness of it all. Only later the hilarity became sadness. Not about 2PM losing a member (although their reactions to it were heartbreaking), but about how pathetic the world has become. Ugh. Just UGH.

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  70. Honestly, I like 2pm more without Jay.... I know a lot of people will hate me for this, but that's my own opinion. I like Jay, but sometimes he just gets all the attention and all the other members are just shoved to one side and watch...

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  71. I agree with everything you said, except I have to say, one of the reasons why Hottest went so apeshit was because they think that Jay didn't actually do anything. As a fan (especially since Jay is my absolute favorite), I did a lot of thinking about that. I don't know what really happened, but I do know that JYPE's explanation didn't add up. So I'm a little suspicious about that, but I definitely don't believe in being assholes to the other six guys. This isn't their fault, they had no part in it. Besides, I think Jay was always sort of meant to be on his own. He's a great leader, but he'll do better by himself. He was such a big influence on 2PM's style and image, maybe it's better for him and for them if he goes. I just don't think it should've happened like this. But that's as much the fans' fault as it is JYP's, if not more. And I know that Jay is human and very capable of making mistakes, it just seems to me like what he did couldn't have possibly been as bad as JYP said, because there are a lot of things about the company's statements that do not make any sense. So maybe JYP jumped the gun. But I guess with their financial troubles right now and their pathetic, and in my opinion hopeless, attempts to market the Wonder Girls in the U.S., I guess he's entitled to panicking a bit. :( The situation is bad enough as it is, the fans made it SO much worse!

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  72. Oh man this, this ... I wanna like hug you! You have said everything on my mind, what I really want to say to them damn Hottests! On allkpop I had said almost the exact same thing; Obviously the myspace shit wasn't the only problem between them, it's something else/personal so just leave it alone, move on with your life. And BAM I got hate comments rofl!

    Dude, my first time seeing your page, this is the first thing I read and I am so following you on twitter!!!

    TELL IT TO 'EM STRAIGHT UP!

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  73. wahh~ i love your blog! AND THIS POST.
    fucking made my day.
    i completely 100% agree with EVERYTHING you wrote. i still meet people who don't support 2pm anymore because of jay leaving. i think i'll be copy/pasting this link to them...
    anyways, AMAZING post. and great site :]

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  74. Um to the people saying Jay didn't do a thing, and that it was really 2pm's fault for "letting him go" ... LET ME SAY WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU.
    It was clearly told that Jay Park did something wrong that affected ALL of 2PM/JYP directly. And the fact that ALL that happened was him leaving the group is something you should be happy for. Whatever he did was not released nor will it be, no matter how much you may think you deserve to know about their private lives.

    And committing suicides... over a boyband. Wow, I know some people really love 2pm but that's a little too far. And frankly, you need some psychological help.

    2pm was great with Jay & they're great without him. I love Jay, I love Junsu, I love Chansung, I love Junho, I love Taec, I love Wooyoung, I love Nichkhun and if you were a true fan, you would love them all equally too.

    2pm's new songs are great. Jay's new songs are great. ^^
    Whatever he did, I don't want to know. And no I'm not in "denial", I just don't really care. We listen to them for the music, not their personalities or successes or mistakes.
    Each member of 2pm is human and if they make a mistake, so be it. But there are still punishments, Jay got his.
    ^^

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  75. AMEN! Jesus, finally a rational person with a rational opinion, not one of those "eekk! Jaebum Oppa com bak 2 2PM, h8 JYP!' freaks. And yes, just like countless other people who've commented, I feel like I must profess my love for you!

    Love you!

    P.S.: I hate when people comment as 'anonymous' is just annoys me.

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  76. I agree with you totally. 1000%. YOU. ARE. AWESOME. It's like you read my mind on the crazy-ass kpop styling like those DBSK suits. I don't even know their music and those suits were like WTFFFFFFFFFFF?!

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  77. JEEZE BITCH, WAY TO GENERALISE AN ENTIRE FANBASE AS HARDCORE JWALKERS! YOU TALK LIKE YOU KNOW THIS ENTIRE SITUATION AND EVERYONE HAS GONE BATSHIT CRAZY AND YOU ARE THE SANE LONE WOLF CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE. YOU THINK EVERY HOTTEST IS REJECTING 2PM? WOULD THEY EVEN BE HOTTESTS IF THEY WERE? I SEE THAT YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO TALK SENSE IN CERTAIN PEOPLE. BUT THE HATE IN YOUR WORDS IS BEING DIRECTED AT HOTTES NOT EX HOTTESTS, WHOM IT ACTUALLY APPLIES TO. I WOULD HAVE PRAISED YOU LIKE MOST OTHETS ON THIS; BUT YOUR CLEAR LACK OF UNDERSTANDING FROM THE START PREVENTS THAT HMM?!

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  78. @unicorn

    Are you yelling while you type this? Do you think you'll get your point across better just because you write in caps? Just curious. btw good job on joining this convo.....a whole year later.

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